The Skills We Don’t Know We Have

Discharging from 16 years in the regular army I didn’t have to worry about getting a new job on “civi street”. I took the skills acquired in the Special Forces and returned to Afghanistan to work at the Australian Embassy as a security contractor. It was an easy transition from Defence, some would say, hardly a transition at all. While there were a few major differences in my work before and after the ADF, there were a lot of similarities. Regardless, I enjoyed the challenge of private security contracting and spent the next six years after discharging from the army doing my best to keep people safe in complex and dangerous environments. 

The uncertainty and real transition for me came in 2016, when I finished working in Afghanistan.  

After 14 years of working on and off in the war troubled country, I returned to Australia with the goal of starting an adventure travel business in Tasmania. It was then I learned the real difficulties of being a small player in an industry where you have to compete for every client.

As a veteran, I was running a few hikes for former military and first responders, showcasing how beneficial the adventure and tranquility of the wilderness can be for mindset. Around this time, I was asked to speak to a group of military veterans about my experience post army. I remember answering a question about useful skills the military teach by saying; “Most of the skills the military teach us are not useful once you get out of Defence”, referring to skills like sniping, proficiency with guns and explosives and techniques for destroying an enemy.  

A few years on, I now believe I answered the question poorly. At the time, I wasn’t too different to a lot of other veterans (and society for that matter); I thought that getting out of Defence I needed to be totally retrained in order to fit back into normal society.  

How wrong I was.  

“What skills can we take from our military service that will help us in life on civi street. What skills do the military give us that make us better people. What skills should we never stop using. What skills make us more competitive in the job market and able to live a life full of passion, purpose and meaning. A life where we constantly improve and evolve?”  

If asked the question again today, my answer would be very different. 
The huge list of soft skills of course – the important skills in life.  

There are two main types of skills in life; Hard Skills and Soft Skills. The military teaches both.  

The strip and assemble of a belt feed general purpose machine gun or the best place to position your fire support in order to effectively suppress an enemy while you overwhelm them, are hard skills. The more hard skills a soldier has, the more useful he is. Hard skills are the abilities and proficiencies that can be taught and trained. They are easy to recognise and test for competency. 

The real gold dust however, lies in the soft skills we develop in the military. The behaviours, traits and non-technical abilities that relate to how we view and do things. 

For most people, having the marksmanship skills to hit an enemy in the chest at 800m loses its usefulness after military service. However, work ethic, flexibility, mental toughness, tenacity, patience and problem solving are key attributes that will see you succeed at whatever you choose to pursue post service. 

The Australian Special Air Service Regiment’s (SAS) selection course I completed in 1997, was at the time, the only course in the ADF not designed to teach you anything. It’s goal is purely to determine if soldiers are suitable for training, to identify those with the soft skills and attributes to become Special Forces operators. An open applicant field across all services and ranks of the ADF is evidence to the order of priority this high performing team of professional soldiers place on these skills. Senior instructors know they can teach you to shoot later but it is a lot harder to teach you a thirst to learn, to remain positive when situations look grim and display mental fortitude in times of adversity.  

Likewise, in the civilian world today; it is why any human resource manager or selection panel worth their weight values these same skills when it comes to hiring new team members. They know it’s precisely these skills that will make you most successful in the workplace.  

So what are the personal traits and attributes that make up those desirable soft skills? 
The list is long, and examples include: 

  • Mental and physical toughness,  
  • Endurance, 
  • Teamwork as well as the ability to work and achieve results alone, unsupervised, (having both, despite popular belief, is not common) 
  • Risk management and the ability to accept risk, (something modern society is becoming less and less able to tolerate) 
  • Conflict resolution and tolerance for other ideas, 
  • Identification and management of your emotions, 
  • Clear and concise communication, as well as listening skills, 
  • Punctuality and time management, 
  • Motivation and purpose, 
  • Positivity and work ethic, 
  • Prioritisation and problem solving, 
  • The ability to self-evaluate yourself and your performance, 
  • Adaptability and dependability; and 
  • Interpersonal or people skills and empathy. 

The million-dollar question is how do we improve our soft skills? 

While it is easy to listen to a talk on leadership, it won’t instantly make you a good leader. Unlike hard skills that can be taught in a 40-minute lesson and cemented with practice over time; experience is the critical factor in soft skills. It is why there are thousands of highly educated yet poor leaders but also thousands of great leaders, communicators and problem solvers that have never taken a single class in it. Maybe their parents were good communicators or maybe they had a childhood sporting coach that was a great mentor. Most likely they have just learned through experience what works and what doesn’t, how to express their ideas and get the best out of people, perfecting these skills over time since they were young.  

Self-awareness is key with soft skills. Identify those you already possess to a high standard so they can go down on your resumé and help you win that next promotion. Equally as important, is recognising any areas that could do with improvement.  Identify the soft skill you are lacking and want to improve. Be conscious of when they are required. Research these skills and possible actions to improve them. Be aware and practice the skill then evaluate and collect feedback. 

Soft skills are transferable not just throughout your career but to everything you do. Improvement should be a steady and continuous cycle, one that never ends, as these vital skills assist us to live a life full of passion, meaning and unforgettable experiences.

Don’t Take the Bus…

I believe every person should have at least one life changing adventure/in filling life with adventures not stuff. Travel is so much more than bus tours, shopping malls and sun lounges by the 5 star pool. Travel is experience and adventure. It is learning and growth. It is opening your mind and exploring the unknown. When you book a package holiday you sign on to other people’s agenda. You travel when, where and how someone else decides. You invest your money, take time off work, organise someone to look after your pets, all just to give up the very thing you are seeking….freedom! If you can’t stop to take a photo when you see something amazing, you’re on the wrong trip.

Being outside your comfort zone is where you truly meet adventure. The true depth, vibrance and culture of a destination rarely presents itself on the well-worn tourist path. It is when you go where the locals go and do what the locals do you discover the true heart of your destination. Experiencing a meal with a family in a village, visiting a local industry, travelling to a remote area untouched by tourists…these are the moments you remember long after you finished your last cocktail at the resort bar. They are the things that change you, that challenge your perceptions and beliefs about life and just generally give you the reminder that life is so much more than the narrow constructs within which we live day to day. So next time you travel, take control of your adventure and make it authentic. Experience the things that interest you not those that someone else deems worthy. When it comes to travel, a little risk offers the greatest reward. When all is said and done life is nothing more than a series of moments and if you miss the moments you miss life.

What moments would you love to experience? From the mountains of Tasmania to the jungles of Cambodia and the deserts of Mongolia, at Point Assist we specialise in unique adventure travel and tailoring your trip just for you! Whatever you can dream, you can do. Contact us to find out how!

International Travel 101

“Plans are nothing; planning is everything.” Dwight D. Eisenhower

In the lead up to your overseas travel its easy to get caught up in the excitement of it all and focus only on all the awesome things you are planning on seeing and doing. But a few well spent minutes of preparation can save hours of headaches and expense during or after your trip.

So before your next overseas adventure, follow our preparation checklist for hassle free travel:

  1. Register – register your travel and contact details online at smart.traveller.gov.au This is a free government service run by the Department of Foreign Affairs and Trade to make it easier to contact you in the event of an emergency. You can also subscribe to receive free email notifications regarding any country updates for your destination.
  2. Cover – protect yourself by taking out a travel insurance policy that covers you for not only where you want to go but what you are planning on doing. The more adventurous the travel, the higher the risk of a potential incident so ensure you are covered not just for the standard medical expenses, theft, damage and interruption to flight plans but for all activities, pre-existing conditions and medical evacuations. Without insurance, you will be personally liable for any medical and associated costs incurred in the event of an emergency so this is not an area to overlook to save a few dollars. If you can’t afford travel insurance, you cant afford to travel.
  3. Research – know your destination. The entry and exit requirements, current events, health issues, customs, traditions and local laws…just because something is legal in one country doesn’t mean it is legal in another. Smart.traveller.gov.au and reputable guide books and travel websites are the best sources.
  4. Medical – check with your doctor or travel clinic to find out if any vaccinations or health checks are required for your destination. Remember to allow ample time before departure (4-6 weeks) as some vaccines require more than one dose or a longer period to take effect than others. If you are travelling with any medications you can find a full list of requirements at humanservices.gov.au
  5. Money – find out the local currency and the availability of ATM’s and Eftpos machines. If using credit or debit cards, check with your bank they will work in country and make sure to register your travel to avoid any potential card blocks. If accepted in country, travel cards can be a good option for avoiding international banking fees and charges.
  6. Communications – if you plan on using your phone and internet while overseas, contact your service provider to discuss global roaming options. Most will have flat fee top up plans to avoid hefty per use charges. If you plan on doing substantial in country communications a local SIM may be a better option.  Online apps such as Messenger and Viber are also great options to communicate with loved ones if you have internet access and want to avoid additional telecommunication costs.
  7. Safety – Always pack and secure your own bags and protect yourself against loss or theft by carrying minimal pieces of luggage. With multiple bags you become easy prey for bag snatchers and pickpockets. Carry or store your money, cards and passport in separate locations so if one is lost or stolen you maintain a secondary source of money and identification.

It’s easy to consider the planning phase overkill and cut corners but getting caught out unexpectedly is a situation no one wants to find themselves in. The better prepared you are the safer and more enjoyable your travel will be…. the best trips are the ones where all your preparation seemed unnecessary.